The trainer caused adversity.

 " Experience is the best teacher, and adversity is the most accomplished trainer" 

What does this line, "The trainer caused adversity", mean?  Well, let's uncover the  meaning of adversity first:

What is adversity?

So, adversity is basically the name of complex, difficult situations a person goes through, a condition that poses a challenge or obstacle to an individual, the situations that can lead to anxiety, stress and depression.

Why does adversity occur?

Well, when people go through hardships, the very first question that their mind asks them is Why did this happen? What have I done to deserve it? Have you ever faced this situation when something important goes wrong and you ask Why me? Indeed would have happened because it's natural and normal for everyone to face this thing. So let's study why these downs come to us without inviting them.

Adversity occurs because:

-You have dreams to come true

-You have people and things you care about

-We are blessed with emotions

We can't control adversity. In a world where we need to become something, where we need to achieve something for someone for ourselves, we have to face adversity. If you sit in one room without doing anything, without any dream to run for, you'll still face adversity to survive, you find ways to look for food to survive, and those ways will sometimes work, and other days they won't lead to any way. So, adversity is important no matter what. We can't stop it from happening. Okay, then what can we control? There's nothing we can control. That's wrong, we have a lot of things that are in our hands to control. Indeed, we can't control adversity, but we can control the way we see it, the way we handle it, and the way we overcome it.

"Tough times are not avoidable; face them."

In the words of Booker T. Washington, " Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached but by the obstacles which he had overcome". 

In the next part, we will discover how these obstacles and challenges are blessings rather than headaches. Till then, stay strong and keep grinding 💖, life has a lot to show you, and you have a long journey to learn.

-Love💕